Friday, January 7, 2011

relations

i've been thinking about this for a long time. it's a pretty good read.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/2010/the-difficulties-of-being-single-vs-the-difficulties-of-being-in-a-monogamous-long-term-relationship/

1 comment:

  1. I think that was a very sad 'article'.
    Some truth, but still sad.

    The main thing that I disagreed with is all the uncomfortableness of the long term relationship (ltr). If you were in one of those relationships and feeling that way, that it is clearly no longer an ltr, because you end it. You dont just stick with someone because they are a warm body. You stick with them because you want to work at the relationship, and you know that they are going to work just as hard as you will.

    Sometimes I wonder if I'm making a mistake, if I would be better off being single. Then I realize that I like the so-called monotany. It's nice to have some stability is parts of your life, and if things are too boring, then you spice it up-take a trip, go on an adventure, be spontaneous...together. it's nice.

    Single is great. But when you find the person that fits...it's better.

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